LOVE
Yeah Yeah, i know what you all might be thinking at this moment- "The drama queen is back." Well it's the Valentine week and it has inspired me a littile but trust me, i've wanted to write about this a long time back but i also wanted to wait for the correct moment. And well it's just the perfect time to talk about LOVE. The first person who came to your mind after reading this is your TRUE LOVE. Not all of us might be lucky to have that person in our life who we consider our soulmate. But sometimes the timing is not right, sometimes we fall for the wrong kinda person, a person who awakens love inside us but doesn't really love us anyway. Some people are meant to fall in love with each other but not meant to be together. Does that mean that we are not entitled to love? Well, no it doesn't. All we have to do is be patient and wait for our moment, for that right person. We need to give life a chance because life is nothing but a basket full of surprising moments.
I admit after the heartbreaks I was afraid to love. I thought that i was cursed or was just unlucky whenever i saw beautiful couples around. I won't lie that i didn't cry or mourn. I did. Maybe way more anyone could ever imagine looking at my smile and the chirpy laughter. It was a constant battle. A war between remembering and forgetting. There were days when i would feel okay, but at times within a day, there was a roller-coaster of feelings. Finally i accepted my condition. Each morning it was a struggle to wake up. With time i healed. But i never wanted the world to know. If one thing i've learnt in life is that nobody actually cares about your sorrow except for your beloved ones, your family and your true friends. Rest of the world is just looking for an excuse to mock you or gossip about you. My problem is that i get attached way too easily. I expect much of people because i give my 100% to them and in my head it's only logical that i will get atleast something back. But i end up getting hurt in the process. I kept trying to make it go away but how do you kill a feeling? Lucky for me that i realised that i deserved better than that. I deserved a man who would move mountains for me if he had to.
People try to find logic in love. But love defies all the logic. Love is pure, eternal, a blessing and a curse at the same time. Love is meant to be an adventure. Nobody is ever too young or too old to fall in love. Love can make you build immortal. There are all kinds of love in this world but never the same love twice. Love is a smoke made with the fume of sighs. The Holy Bible says "Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant"
The problem with love these days is that society has taught us to stare at people with their eyes rather than their souls. This is where we make mistake. True love is not about the hugs and kisses, the "I love you's" or the "I miss you's". Its about the chills that hit every part of your body when you think about them. You need to fall in love with yourself first before falling in love with someone else. So like whomever and whatever you want and be damn proud of it. Set your life on fire. Seek those who fan your flames. Don't give up on love. Don't be afraid to fall in love. Find the right person. Above all of this make a promise that if you love, you'll love truly and deeply. For the ones who have loved and lost, give love another chance. Don't blame love for the pain you've suffered. Blame the timing and the wrong person. Everyone deserves to love and be loved. As for me i'm looking for my REAL LOVE. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't-live-without each other LOVE. xoxo!!!!!!!
Yeah Yeah, i know what you all might be thinking at this moment- "The drama queen is back." Well it's the Valentine week and it has inspired me a littile but trust me, i've wanted to write about this a long time back but i also wanted to wait for the correct moment. And well it's just the perfect time to talk about LOVE. The first person who came to your mind after reading this is your TRUE LOVE. Not all of us might be lucky to have that person in our life who we consider our soulmate. But sometimes the timing is not right, sometimes we fall for the wrong kinda person, a person who awakens love inside us but doesn't really love us anyway. Some people are meant to fall in love with each other but not meant to be together. Does that mean that we are not entitled to love? Well, no it doesn't. All we have to do is be patient and wait for our moment, for that right person. We need to give life a chance because life is nothing but a basket full of surprising moments.
I admit after the heartbreaks I was afraid to love. I thought that i was cursed or was just unlucky whenever i saw beautiful couples around. I won't lie that i didn't cry or mourn. I did. Maybe way more anyone could ever imagine looking at my smile and the chirpy laughter. It was a constant battle. A war between remembering and forgetting. There were days when i would feel okay, but at times within a day, there was a roller-coaster of feelings. Finally i accepted my condition. Each morning it was a struggle to wake up. With time i healed. But i never wanted the world to know. If one thing i've learnt in life is that nobody actually cares about your sorrow except for your beloved ones, your family and your true friends. Rest of the world is just looking for an excuse to mock you or gossip about you. My problem is that i get attached way too easily. I expect much of people because i give my 100% to them and in my head it's only logical that i will get atleast something back. But i end up getting hurt in the process. I kept trying to make it go away but how do you kill a feeling? Lucky for me that i realised that i deserved better than that. I deserved a man who would move mountains for me if he had to.
People try to find logic in love. But love defies all the logic. Love is pure, eternal, a blessing and a curse at the same time. Love is meant to be an adventure. Nobody is ever too young or too old to fall in love. Love can make you build immortal. There are all kinds of love in this world but never the same love twice. Love is a smoke made with the fume of sighs. The Holy Bible says "Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant"
The problem with love these days is that society has taught us to stare at people with their eyes rather than their souls. This is where we make mistake. True love is not about the hugs and kisses, the "I love you's" or the "I miss you's". Its about the chills that hit every part of your body when you think about them. You need to fall in love with yourself first before falling in love with someone else. So like whomever and whatever you want and be damn proud of it. Set your life on fire. Seek those who fan your flames. Don't give up on love. Don't be afraid to fall in love. Find the right person. Above all of this make a promise that if you love, you'll love truly and deeply. For the ones who have loved and lost, give love another chance. Don't blame love for the pain you've suffered. Blame the timing and the wrong person. Everyone deserves to love and be loved. As for me i'm looking for my REAL LOVE. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't-live-without each other LOVE. xoxo!!!!!!!
